![]() Today, I went with the second option I had as far as advice went: to be direct with the fact that I didn't want to drink and why I didn't want to drink. I tried that a few times this past week, but she always said that she'll go with me anyway and that she's a better option than whoever I was going with because "I'm your mother, I'm always going to be responsible for you!" ![]() The first was to sort of dissuade her by saying that I had other plans, was going somewhere else, etc. I presented this problem to r/raisedbynarcissists and I got two options as far as advice in this situation. I don't want to drink, I don't want to get drunk, I don't want to go out or anything. She's an angry drunk, and I don't want that for me. She's even made "jokes" about recording me while drunk. She wants to be the party mom, be the first person to see me drunk and the first person to see me drunk to the point of vomiting, drunk to the point of blacking out, etc. ![]() My mom has, since I was 16, gone on about her plans for my 21st birthday. For background, I am turning the US legal age of drinking this year, 2022. ![]()
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